Learn to give up wisely
Never give up has been accepted by many people as a positive life attitude. Admittedly persistence often plays an important role in one success. However, in many cases to give up might be wiser than to persist blindly. The following reasons can support this argument.
Firstly, sometimes our goal may be unrealistic. If we insist on it blindly, it will finally bring us nothing but failure. At this time, what we should do is give up the original goal and reset a more practical one.
Secondly, not all persistence can bring deserving results. For a very simple example if we keep waiting in line for hours, only to have a luncheon restaurant, maybe it is unwise.
Finally, to give up wisely does not mean admitting failure. Instead, it does mean a new hope of success.
Considering the above mentioned, we can come to the conclusion that to give up wisely is a kind of more mature life attitude. Though giving up sometimes is painful and costly, in the long run what we gain will definitely far outweigh what we lose.
Criticism
It is not unusual for people to be subject to criticism. Anyone may be criticized by others in his work or study. For example: workers who fail to accomplish their tasks will be criticized. Students who have poor performance in exams will be criticized.
Attitudes towards criticism differ from person to person. Some people will become annoyed if they are criticized and they will try to excuse themselves by all means. Some people tend to be indifferent criticism. They just regard criticism as nonsense. But still some people accept criticism modestly and try to find their shortcomings by other's criticism. These people stand a better chance of success in their life.
As to me, I welcome other's criticism to me. I have always believed the Chinese saying, “Good medicine but taste bitter will heal one's illness\". In my opinion, the criticism will make us unhappy. It can help us know our shortcomings and inadequacy. Therefore, we should take other's criticism seriously, instead being annoyed with or turning a deaf ear to it.
Young People Should Have Ideals
What are you going to do when you grow up? When I was a child, people often asked me this question about the ideal. Undoubtedly, every individual, especially a young person, should have an ideal. Hardly can we find any great people we know ideal when they were young.
An ideal is a vital importance to one's growth and success. On the one hand, an ideal is the target of one's life. Once you decide what your ideal is, you know where to go, and which way to take. Otherwise, you might become puzzled in many things in your life. On the other hand, an ideal is like the engine of vehicles. Only when we have our own ideals, can we find the origin of energy and enthusiasm in life, and become active and perseverant. Whatever your ideal is, careful plan and preparation is vital to its realization. Of course, the path from where you are to where you want to get is not always smooth and straight. Therefore, an optimistic, positive mind is indispensable in the process of your persevering your ideal.
In a word, only if you have an ideal, you will have the chance of realizing it.
How to improve public morals?
Nowadays there are still many behaviors against public morality, such as spiting or littering in public places, cutting in line, wasting water or electricity and so on.
One of the main reasons for these immoral behaviors is that some people lack personal manners and public consciousness. Actually these small things in many people's eyes have brought great bad effects on our community. Above all, these immoral behaviors disturb social order. Moreover, one's violating public morality not only evades others' benefits but also does harm to himself. For example, if most people buy pirated products, those original producers will suffer great
damage and might lose the enthusiasm to continue their producing. Which in turn, influences consumers taking the profits into consideration, I think it is high time that we would take more effective measures to improve public morals.
First of all, education plays a very vital role. We must utilize education to make people know their behaviors influence on the society and follow public morals consciously. Besides the government should improve the administration system and ensure the efficient improvement of administration measures.
Does e-mail make people get closer or drift apart?
Nowadays, more and more people are exchanging a great variety of information by using electronic mails instead of traditional ways of mailing letters. Some people think that e-mail makes relationships among people closer, while some others maintain that makes people drift apart.
Those who hold the former opinion insist that the appearance of e-mail makes communication quicker and more convenient. By e-mail people can deliver more information including pictures and sounds. However, some others think e-mail with the same format and print font includes less emotion, then traditional letters written by hand. Most people use e-mails to deliver information instead of feelings.
From my point of view, e-mail does bring great convenience for people, but it is not a better way to express our feelings than traditional letters. Our
hand-writing on the paper can deliver much emotion. Therefore, when you want to express your love and care to someone, writing a letter to her or him by hand is a wise choice.
Holiday Economy
As we see, the extended holidays have caused unexpected great travel craze and brisk economic activities. But there are many debates on the advantages and disadvantages of this kind of holiday economy. Many people, especially some economists, are in favor of the holiday economy. They believe that tourism-based holiday economy has raised consumption and helped to spur the domestic demands. In addition, transportation, catering, hotels and service industries become flourishing during long holidays.
However, many others argue that the holiday economy do more harm than good. First, the travel craze puts a heavy burden on the traffic system. Second, thousands of tourists full scenic spots causing over crowdedness and safety problems.
As to me, I believe the advantages of holiday economy outweigh its disadvantages. After all, holiday economy greatly benefits the development of our overall economy. Besides, consumers can enjoy more colorful commodities and more preferential policies provided by the merchants. But the government should take effective measures to reduce the side effects of holiday economy.
Advantages of Trying New Things
It is widely accepted that one is more likely to succeed at things he already knows how to do well. However, to limit ourselves to doing only those things we are good at will make us miss many opportunities to develop other interests and skills. Therefore, sometimes it is necessary for us to try some new things and take some rests. Though we have the risk of failure when trying new things, we can get many advantages from it.
Firstly, the process of trying a new thing is a rewarding experience, from which we may feel a different world. Secondly, even if we fail, we can still absorb experience and lessons from the trying process and our failure. Thirdly, if it turns out that we succeed at this new try, we'll get great pleasure and confidence .Finally, it is impossible for us to never fail even if we do only what we are familiar with. We don't know when we'll meet the situation we can't control. With experience of trying new things, when facing unexpected situations, we can deal with them better.
Considering the above mentioned, we needn't be afraid of new things but should bravely try them. But it is worth noting that trying new things bravely does not mean acting rashly and blindly. We should take full account before we are ready to try new things. The Popularity of Blog
In recent years, blog has become very popular. More and more people have created their own blogs and often visit others' blogs. They use blog to review their
inner voice or collcet and share thoughts and things they find interesting. In brief, blog is an online diary or frequently updated personal page.
Why does blog become so popular in such a short time? Firstly, it is the widespread of Internet that provides a platform for the appearance and popularity of blog. Secondly, anyone can create his own blog as he wishes. Blog has no fixed rules and needn't professional knowledge and skills, which enables millions of people to have a voice and connect with others. Thirdly, blog covers all kinds of topics from daily life to political forums,from individual thoughts to world events. Among millions of blogs, you can always find something you are interested in.
However, blog has some problems. For one thing, plagiarism in blog is not unusual. The protection of blog copyright cannot be guaranteed. For another, many blog content so in and mass and some even include unhealthy things. Therefore, blog still has a long way to run before it becomes mature.
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